JEM STOPES
RegCOSRT
Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy


LIVE YOUR BEST LOVE LIFE
Hi, I'm Jem! I’m a COSRT‑registered psychosexual and relationship therapist offering online therapy worldwide. I specialise in supporting couples to navigate sexual difficulties together - whether that’s desire discrepancy, sexual function problems like erectile dysfunction or vaginismus, and communication blocks.
My practice is Queer‑, ENM‑, and kink‑affirming. I am currently taking on new clients: Book a free 20‑minute discovery call to see if we’re a good fit.
RELATIONSHIP THERAPY
I work with all kinds of relationships, for people of all genders, sexual orientations, kinks, lifestyles and preferences.
I work to find the core of the challenges bringing you to therapy, and to turn them into the foundations of the deeper and more nourishing relationship that you are capable of. My practice focuses on:
- Tackling sexual difficulties
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Navigating desire discrepancy
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Building secure attachment
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Supporting partners in conflict
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Non-monogamy / Polyamoury
I adapt the level of intervention to give you a safe space to discuss important issues, while getting you ready to go it alone.
Click here to read more about me, or the way that I work.
Click here to book a free 20 minute consultation with me.
PSYCHOSEXUAL THERAPY
I work with all kinds of people, of any gender, sexual orientation, kink, or lifestyle.
I'm qualified as a Clinical Sexologist, that means I have training and experience supporting people with sexual difficulties. I work with all psychosexual presentations including:
- Erectile difficulties
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Premature / delayed ejaculation
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Challenges with desire
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Kink-related issues
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Sexual dissatisfaction
I believe that sexual function problems can often be a mirror to wider relationship challenges, so if you have a partner I might suggest that we try working together - but I'm always available to meet 1-1 first so you can have a private space to share.
Click here to read more about me, or about the way that I work.
Click here to book a free 20 minute consultation with me.

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