JEMÂ STOPES
RegCOSRT
Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy
LIVE YOUR BEST LOVE LIFE
Hi, I’m Jem! I’m a COSRT registered sex and relationship therapist.
I love helping people get the most out of their relationships - whether you're in a couple now and are looking for support, or you're single and want to know how to make your relationships stick - I'd be happy to have an exploratory call to see if we click.
PSYCHOSEXUAL THERAPY
Sexual difficulties are much more common then you might think - that's because they can be so hard to talk about!
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I've worked with a whole range of sexual difficulties including:
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Erectile dysfunction
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Premature ejaculation
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Difficulties with orgasms
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Vaginismus
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Pain on penetration
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Issues involving kink/BDSM
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I use a mixture of talk therapy to ease the pressure and anxiety, along with practical interventions to improve symptoms and regain control.
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Click here to read more about me, about the way that I work, or to book a free 20-minute consultation​.
RELATIONSHIP THERAPY
I work with all kinds of relationships, for people of all genders, sexual orientations, kinks, lifestyles and preferences.
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I work to find the core of the challenges bringing you to therapy, and to turn them into the foundations of the deeper and more nourishing relationship that you are capable of. My practice focuses on:
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Improving communication
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Navigating desire discrepancy
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Building secure attachment
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Non-monogamy / Polyamoury
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Supporting partners in conflict
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I adapt the level of intervention to give you a safe space to discuss important issues, while getting you ready to go it alone.
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Click here to read more about me, about the way that I work, or to book a free 20-minute consultation.
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"Courage is the most important of all the virtues, because without courage you can't practice any other virtue consistently."